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What’s one positive trait you’ve gained because of BPD?

14.06.2025 18:25

What’s one positive trait you’ve gained because of BPD?

Im constanly in a state of FLIGHT or FIGHT my whole life

I was grabbed out of my mother hung upside down, and rushed up to the prenatal ward, to spend 4 mths alone, with, only medical staff.

She was deluded, and thought she could stay on for the reminder of the holiday!

Are there many people here who suffer from schizophrenia?

They look at me amazed ,and ask me how i could possibly know it?

I think the readers, may guess!

My life is so biszare .

Why cant I feel anything in my sleep? I cannot even feel myself moving, breathing, and swallowing saliva! I cannot even hear anything, not even my alarm! Some people that I've been with says that I'm moving a lot in my sleep, how can I stop it?

But i went to school ,and was locked up evey evening , until he was off out on a bender..then mum would set us free, and we,d be bouncing off the walls,

I did it because my mum asked me too!

My mum and dad in the seventies!

How much should one budget to travel for 1 month generally?

So i became my fathers slave and he hated me the most.

You’d think that being brought up for so long, in those terrible circumsatances ,i would know the ways of people ,and the world, but i wasn,t in , nor of the world .

Because huge Trauma like mine is alive.

What should I expect after a BBL surgery?

And ive living now since 2005, on disablement .(Which is a pittance)

We didn’t no it wasn;t normal life..we were isolated, and taken from Dublin in Ireland ,where our whole mothers family lived , to Liverpool in England!

I let him have the joy of his friends( that i would never know myself.!)

What do you think of Vance using a clip of an embarrassed teenager from almost 20 years ago in an attempt to bully Kamala Harris?

But im a psyci anyway, and i read energy and people, .

I had offered the whole expense of the holiday to her, free.

I could never make a relationship work though!

How do flat Earthers explain the existence of other spherical planets?

This is soul school!.

I had hoped to write a book about this .

I got to know the terrible awful childhood, he had himself. And his Jolly Pub Persona.

How can I get rid of the fake girls on social media that are claiming to be hookups? Is there a way to shuffle through them and the real women that actually want to talk?

Im a true spealist, because i study it for years .And i still do..

I know ,a lot about trauma.

I never cut or harmed myself..

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I of course replied” arh beautiful!

19 years ,i spent with dear old papa.

Where the ultimate outsiders.

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Another so called friend had bit the dust..

Im still living with it.

(And it was in our own minds.)

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I suffer greatly, because of BPD..

She died at 55 of colon cancer.

I am a twin , my twin is a boy called Alan. I had a sister and 2 other brothers

One of his many names for me was Runt .He like that it rhymed with (well you know)

Took her away on holiday ,with us, my 2 pugs her dog, a Jack Russell.

I write beautiful poetry .

Im dying but, im not bitter.

But i am married 43 years to my husband this July !

She was a women, a mother with her own children!.

With Catholic nuns and Church on Sundays.

She married twice! .

The only way to get rid of it forgood ,is sommence therapy,

I was very sick at this time too.

Would this be the day?

Even in the coal hole, i said the lines in my head..

Thats was my nicest nick name for him

And, all my friends down the years ,where users.

His abuse (his own) began at 2 years of age. His mothers friend, sexually abused him, from the age of 2.

Being very nice and never wanting to say the wrong thing.

BPD only comes to a person who has suffered childhood trauma.

He did pay me though, i made him (.After i’d trudged miles to get his pension ) Before ,it all was gone, over the pubs counter!

My family never makes their pension either.

I was scared of men, in general

I did write a poem about him though, and my mum.

I forgave my father,, and in those years i cleaned and looked after him .

5 of us kids, and it wasn’t a big house.

The apprentership one gets in Extreme Big T Trauma childhood is insight and extreme awarness.

Youll pack your bags and leave Dorset.

I waited trembling.

Anyway, i told my husband ,and he was gobsmacked.

We born here on earth , for the soul to learn , the contrast, of heaven.

Also my liver and lungs are fatally diseased!

Mine was extreme ,and lasted 19 years

She wouldn,t have been !

I only stopped writing poetry recently, because , of my brain tumor

I forgave my father, and i took care of him ,until his death in 1999..my mum left us on the 29th Jan 1998.

He resisted the act ,that day.

We all went to grammer schools

Im kind ,and give many things, inc money ,to any of persons in need. I have a groups of homeless beggars ..i help out daily. They all know me by name!

But ive been too sick for many years..

But im an empath, and i help lots of people.

As i gave and gave ,everything to people, they began to use me.

It will be my last birthday ,as im dying of a brain tumor and 8 other autoimune diseases.

And if you hold on to hate you only die inside yourself,!

Especially a lifetime of it.

I watched his eyes light up and his twisted smile rejoice, in his joy of it all.

She found it foreign!.

Her first husband, had been a gay man ,and he was a lovely person.

He’d bring us out ,and we would form the position .

She loved him until the end.

He was a brick layer (when he worked at all) and he carried his tools around ,hanging from a money belt.

And as she herself ,wasn’t kissed or touched as a child.

I was the most vunerable of my siblings. I was born small ,and was sickly ,and of course none of us could ever thrive!

But people really die of the Big T Trauma!!

So whats the point in blame.

What did i know ?

Yes, a stroke or heart attack is the reason on your death certificate.

Although he,d calmed down a bit ..he still shouted his orders at me and thought , my older sister would be better at the job..

And i lived it daily.

For him, I cleaned and cooked and shopped, and spent the whole day, doing a weeks work) in the only day off, i had, besides Sunday.)

But he said ,he was sick of her anyway ,and only put up with her as i had a friend ,and seemed to be happy.

Trauma lives in the body, as ive explained, but it actually this that kills you in the end.

I couldn’t, believe it.

I do have abandomment issues but they come from being left alone ,without my mum, or any of my family in a incubator for 4 months.

I said to her

I wasn’t taught any boundries, our home ,was like any war zone , and Dad told us, he had bodies buried, under the floor boards.

Put me off passion for life!!

Then he’ d take out his beloved lump hammer ,show it to the kids.

I will be 64.

One cannot live in the past .

I only knew my twisted world , and there, is no choice for a child but to live in it. Or Die in it!

We wern’t close any more, the family fractured, after my Mothers death, and seeing me annoyed them ,as i was the familys scapegoat..

A line in front of him, from the eldest to the youngest.

My dad was a alcholic psychopath, and violent in the extreme.

I ended up cooking for her, and bringing her eveywhere with us.

And when you live in a life , of being terrified, and shocked, and permantly stressed; especially as a child born in to all this .

And don,t forget my 4 months alone, in the incubator. Knowing my brother in the womb and my mother voice .The baby knows she’s alone!

One was a lump hammer, another was a iron chisel.

They are buried together, in the same grave..

Insight, and i can spot a wrongin from 3 miles away.

My only sister also couldn,t make her life work.

Its mostly always from childhood abuse .

He call us down, from where ever he stashed each one of us ,that day ! We were kept seperate.!

Your thinking ,but those kids would have been street wise?

And as runt ,of the litter .Which of course, i actually was!

One cannot hold on to bitterness.

I don,t even have a pension.

Comes on , in middle age.

All the time i was locked up.

Then later on when my husband had gone to the bar..she started telling me, that they where having a affair, and that he loved her much more then me ,and other loads of visious lies.

That life, was meant to be , as the world teaches us great lessons, and leaves us many gifts.

We were not on the streets..

We could never speak unless he spoke to us!

Why do we forgive? Because if we don,t

It was going to be , some day.

He isn,t a very sexual person at the best of times!

He’d sit me down, and stand behind the chair, Then he’d make a great show of his beauty (the chesil )and place it behind my neck ,at the base!

Trauma never leaves you! Its actually lives in the fashia ,of the body .The connective tissue.

Why ? because Trauma depletes the immune system.you get terribley ill , with chronic disease from all the horror ,and stress of it.

The only rule us 5 kids had .

Ther’s very good reasons why i was left alone.

Thats being isolated in a house, locked up as a child .We never saw any people except in School and we had no relatives in Liverpool!

She was in good health!

She died young (from the stress and abuse of Big T Trauma) of liver cancer!

But my sister and my other 3 brothers wouldn’t have come near him every again!

Was to survive, this bastard.

As i do to all so called friends.?

Due to the real legacy of trauma (B.P.D)

Like some twisted love , they where addicted to each other

Ive learnt so much.

So, i spoilt her more .

But im dying ,and its too late for me.

He knew the spot.

Because , i didnt have the heart to hurt my friend.!.

And i know him well ,and every thing about him. This relationship, is the only real one iIve been able to keep!

At this time i had honed my heart to the same, as that of a lion and i knew i wouldn’t beg or cry ,nor plead.

When she asked me how she looked .

This is how, and why children get BPD.

He was dying to do it , i knew.

So he went home with my mum to her 2 other children.

Everytime, i saw a chronically ill person in middle years.

But, we were locked up after school.

We were all going out this night to a fancy resteraunt.

Anyway ,i could never hold on to a relationship.

He took out the hammer, and explained again, how the smallest tap ,of this hammer would kill me in a second.

Those are used to try and block the pain, like that of my life out..

My familys so full of ancestral BIG T Trauma.

He said i reminded him of an old aunt ,who used to beat him, and when the menapause came, she was placed in a mental home and never was released ,until she died.

Why did i forgive my father ?

I might have to go back 30 generations or more..

Do all the shopping, and cooking and look after all the dogs.

The same beautiful brown eyes my mother loved so much!

You don’ t get a state one here , in England ? until your at least 67 yrs old ! Im 63.

But there where , these other acts only us 2 girls, would receive, (When id have rather had his lump hammer , and chisel.).

His mum and dad ,were Alcoholics!

He had many friends, who didn,t know the home devil he was, for his sake ,i never enlighted them either.

Its a big thing in the States for the last 25 years.

My mother wasn’t a tactile women ..only as babes could she touch us. After we grew ,she couldn,t touch any of us.

I had many talking therapys , but they just don,t work.

As i said though i will be 64 on my last birthday!

Stress hormones Adrenaline and Cortosol ,would have flooded my brain, and they never left it!!!!

My twin will have involuntary pissed himself, but not me at least not, that day!

My place (mostly )was the coal hole..it was a small room heaped with coal .

I was 9 years of age.

When he wanted one of his lessons to be taught!

On the 31st of Jan this month .

Although we always gave her a kiss on the cheek. She would shrink away from it!

I immediatly know and see what their chidhood was. I tell them you had a awful time in childhood.

And who doesn’t know suffering?

He said i’d end up like her, and he laughed his big rolicking bear of a laugh!

.I left my 2 sons and my husband to do it. Instead of spending the day with them

Rather to engertic for me ,with my terrible health, but i was left to run the house, it was a Cottage in Dorset.

I was writing from the time i was a small child.

He weighed in at 5 lbs .I was the second born, and i weighed 3 and a half pounds.

I was seconnd youngest,

As she had lost her son ,to fatty liver disease!

She stayed with him because she thought he,d grow out of it. He didn’t of course!

I worked then as a chef ,and a very good one.

As is all addictions, people can’t leave off.

But it has taught me many things other people will , never know!

One women pretended to my husband she wanted to see me for coffee ,and make friends.

I have no regrets .

It comes from Big T Trauma and is no fault of anyone who has it.

Who then, do I blame.?

As his daughter ,he didn’t even think I wouldn,t do it. (Look after him)

Its like, taking poison, and hoping the other person will die.

The coal was sharp, and i usually had no underware! So my bare arse ,was cut and rossened on the coal..

She said her life with him ,was love, and spoke to me of all the passion, it had brought her.

She got all dolled up, but it looked as she was dressed up to play the part of , Florence Nightingale ,as she descended down the cottage stairs ,like a Queen.

But it wasn’t much.